You hit on exactly the reason why I make the point in the community post which refers people back here, and no apology is necessary.

If people want to use obscenitites in replying to my post in the dc_clocktower or dc_universe communities, I agree that I have no moral authority to tell them no. But what's been happening is that people come over here and then forget (as you yourself did) that they're commenting in a personal journal, not in a public community. Which is why I've made the point when posting the referrals.